Manners- and why we should all teach our children.
Do you teach your children manners? Please and thank you can
go a long way, as can being courteous.
I am pleased my children know when to use manners. They are
not perfect and sometimes need reminding, but generally they are pretty good.
My four year old is especially mindful and answers “You’re welcome” to my thank
you. It is very cute and I hope it continues.
I recently flew back from Adelaide and was thrilled when my
upgrade to Business class had been approved. I had had an emotional weekend
away and the thought of being pampered just a little was welcoming.
Warning though, don’t do it- I swear you’ll never want
cattle class again!
Wait-Scrap that, take it every chance you can get, it was
fun as far as flying goes which can be as exciting as grocery shopping before a
long weekend. Cramped irate people don’t
bode well at the best of times.
Any hoo, so I am quietly enjoying the little bit of luxury
ahead of me. Drinks, food, movies. Yes I know you get that anywhere, but let me
tell you there is something about mixing a gold class movie experience with
fine dining that is a little bit nice.
I had opted for the window seat, which is something I never
do when travelling alone. I normally prefer the aisle seat so you don’t have to
clamber over people to use the loo. I thought it might be nice for once to have
the window plus its only one person you have to ask to move should the need
arise.
Of course the need arose; a woman is not a camel! Three
children will tell me that. Add to that bubbles and sav blancs being thrown
around like lollies at a children’s party. I was ready to bust a move or bust something trying!
The timing couldn’t be worse, it was post food and Mr
Nonchalant next to me had closed his eyes… Urghhh I have to ask him politely to move but also to
wake him up? It couldn’t wait, the hostess had been so accommodating I was in
no position to just wait it out.
“Excuse me, I need to use the bathroom”
Now any normal person would just stand up out of their seat
and let you pass right?
WRONG- Instead he flung, uh huh flung his legs over his arm
rest and expected me to pass through without him moving…
Are.you. serious?
So I clamber, using the seats in front to steady myself because
frankly falling into Mr No Manners seat on the way through was NOT an option!
On the return, he again has his eyes closed. Do I really
want to go through that again? Ask him to move when in fact he quite clearly
wont? Dammit this was MY pamper moment and this rude individual was going to
spoil it for me…
No, instead I change tact. There is one spare seat, an aisle
seat. A glorious aisle seat just waiting me.
I sit. The person I have sat next to is asleep. I pretend
that it’s an ordinary thing to swap seats when they wake startled to find me
there. I mention in a voice loud enough for Mr No Manners to hear,ive been
ousted from my own seat and point back to Mr No Manners,who is still pretending
to be asleep.
The two gentleman across the aisle also hear me and had
witnessed my less than elegant manoeuvre as I went past clinging to their
seats. They too mention loudly that it was rude of Mr No Manners to not get up.
I felt like cheering them.
The hostess with the mostess (wine) came toward me. Was everything
ok?
Yes, Mr No Manners just wouldn’t move, and this was free so
well, I took it.
No problem she says, and promptly wakes Mr No Manners and
instructs him to grab my belongings pronto! Another cheer wouldn’t go astray
here by the way.
And she compensates me with a drink- win win. The rest of my
flight being well and truly peaceful.
And to Mr No Manners, shame on you.
So tell me, what rude non mannered people have you
encountered recently?
